Out of all the relationships I’ve had, I can honestly say, female friendships are the most complex.
We have all had that moment, the night before work, you’ve changed your hair and you’re wondering if your coworkers can “handle” it.
One of my most constant struggles is trying to be a mom and still look good. I developed a system that creates the illusion that I’m more put together than I actually am. Most mornings I am a disaster and, I wish I could blame it all on being a mom and having a million things to do, but the truth is I am just not a morning person. On the average morning I typically run so late, I get to a point where I just slow down and accept it. Honestly being late doesn’t bother me, and if it wasn’t for the fear of losing my job and the image I get of me and Jay running behind some bus like Will and Jaden Smith in the Pursuit of Happiness I would do nothing to change it. Since I rather not be on the streets, here are a few things that keep me looking like I have it semi together in a reasonalble amount of time. (more…)