An Introduction ….
My name is Noelle. I’m botled water enthusiast and a part of the small yet thriving black Harry Potter loving community. My main reason for creating this blog is to inspire people from all walks of life by sharing the exeperiences and knowledge. I do not currrently have a defined “niche” unless you count uncoventional, semi nerdy woman who is mildly obssesed with pop culture, still trying to figure out how I thought I would have my life together by my age as a niche, and I’m okay with that. I want you to read my post and feel inspired, feel informed, or feel like you at least know how not go about a particular situation after reading about how I failed. I’m not perfect and I don’t claim to be. I will try my best to post entertaining and inspirational content as often as possible.
At 17 I became a mother to a beautiful daughter named Jael, at the time I was determined to offer her the best life possible. Even though I was in my Junior year of high school I obtained a second Job and was able to work and go to school via a co op program. Though my journey seemed impossible at the time. I knew I owed to myself, and Jael to remain determined to not become a statistic and to strive for the best.
Shortly after Jael was born I decided that I should move out on my own, despite my mothers support. I wanted to prove to myself that, even though I had not made the best choices in life, I was able to be a great mother on my own. I never wanted anyone to be able to say they had to support me or that I owed them anything. I also wanted the opportunity to raise my daughter on my own terms and instill the values most important to me in her.
Its pretty much just been Jael and I ever since. I started a career in banking to ensure my own financial stability. Even though we are definitely not rich, I hustle and make sure that my baby girl is well taken care of and happy.
In July of 2017 I decided that Jael and I would start a new chapter in our lives. I sold all of my furniture and my car, packed three large boxes and shipped them to my mother’s house in Arizona. We said good bye to our friends and family, and boarded a plane feeling a little excited and scared at the same time. In a ridiculously short amount of time I started my new job , replaced our belongings, and found a home that we are absolutely in love with. The move turned out to be one of the best decisions I had made, and I thank God everyday for all that we have been blessed with.
I had to figure out that being a mom is not about being perfect, it dosent mean loosing who you are in the process either. Its about loving your child as much as humanly possible and putting their best interest first in all that you do. . We all have our unique ways to deal with lifes obtacles that work for us. Though my journey is not done, I have learned so much along the way and I hope to inspire and encourage you with my thoughts, and experiences.
Rember to Love your self first.
Lets connect and flourish together!